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January, 2012
phenomenon 12:05 AM

Phenomenon: incompatible

“I was praying for GOD, asking him to make my husband love me, never have I received an answer. As time went by, he walked out the door, thats when I knew GOD answered me, thats when I knew what I wish I didn’t”

When I asked why – she said its because his interest was else where. Wanted a social front, a need for everyone to call him a grown man, settled and at ease, knows how to get down with a woman.

Not necessarily true.

These are bits and pieces of an email conversation I had with a woman who reached out to me maybe a year back, discussing her failed marriage. Family arranged type.

Never once have I shown any signs of disapproval for arranged marriage. Not my field, not what I do. Always wish them the best, regardless.

She explained, told me what she found out. I wont share it, its not why I made this post, I made it because I wanted to make sure other women avoid playing the same role again.

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27
October, 2011
phenomenon 12:54 AM

Phenomenon: Jealousy

We are made of mud. Strong statement is it not ?

Beautiful how we come to existence with countless talents, emotions and creativity.

Some are seen as gifted, they bring forth a breakthrough, a quantum leap, an invention or simply an idea many people like.

Feelings, in all their colors, bright to dark, are all naturally built in. Dealing with them is not.

Feelings of love, joy and belonging are elements that lead you to a state of bliss. When love comes through, every black and white scene in your mind, suddenly becomes fresh with loads of strong, shiny colors, even layers of it too.

Ofcourse, sometimes people utter words/share stories/show off/bring forth an action that triggers jealousy in you. Say a new house, car, man, friend, money, you name it, the list is infinite for those who are easily triggered.

The question is, how do you deal with these feelings ? How do you take out the jealousy in you out of your system ?

Before I answer that and just to make you relate more to the post, thought of bringing real examples from different eras in Kuwait, will help you view things differently, all under one roof, jealousy & human behavior.

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14
August, 2011
phenomenon 1:10 AM

Phenomenon: Left Brain – Right Brain

I truly believe that there are posts made for some people. Some texts, some books are meant to be read and understood by those – somehow – chosen few.

Deeply believe that we are all blessed, sinners, saints, dead – alive and those who are coming, just because we are meant to be alive. we were chosen. Thats how I see it. Thats why I believe everyone is special. Including you – the person reading this right now.

So what do I want ?

Been reading some books lately that are MIND oriented. These books all agree that you should differinciate between your left and right brain.

What does the left brain do ? what does it want with me ?

Well, it is the side of you that is animalistic.

Yes, Animal-istic.

Meaning, it always wants you to be the best, the first, the biggest, the fastest, the most powerful, the conquerer and the OWNER of your surroundings. Wither its people or objects.

This is where spirituality comes, not religion, spirituality. This is where all the blessed souls come in with glorious names like Moses, Joseph, Zakariya, Jesus and Mohammed – Peace be upon them all. Then on an intellectual level we have Buddha, Ghandi, Teresa and Confucius.

Now what do these people want ? Please push aside the different names of religions they brought down to earth. Lets just focus on the message.

All of them wanted you to or would ask you to:

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06
January, 2011
phenomenon 12:30 PM

Phenomenon: Mean Earthlings/Jealousy

Well, its been a while since I last poured out my thoughts and experiences from my beautiful/edgy surroundings.

I’ll try my best to keep this short, informative, entertaining as much as I can because in reality its the exact opposite.

So here goes,

I was holding a meeting/presentation with the utmost beautiful/smartest peeps where I work, I love how intuitive and proactive these people are, their energy too.

Everything was going great till the Q & A section popped up. My colleague and wonderful friend for 5 years was answering/explaining everything that was thrown his way till one person – Female – broke the magic stick and started disrespecting him/throwing accusations/finger pointing/high-tone-voice/hand waves and finally giving eye rolls to each and every answer given to her. Knowing that the subject discussed has nothing to do with all this darkness.

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22
September, 2010
phenomenon 1:26 AM

Phenomenon: Space/Clutter Part 2

I made a post about clutter/stress back in MAY. More things popped up so this is part 2.

“Less is more”

I love 3D graphics, visual stuff and sophistication in all forms. Thats why I thought i’d use this technology on myself.

3-4 years ago, I started using a program called Mind Manager by Mindjet, extremely popular. I use it for all my projects at work and I use it when I want to travel somewhere to get everything up and running. Plus, you get to have a bird’s eye view on all your tasks in a split second.

This time I made it personal. I made a mind map visualizing my life as the centre piece and whatever I throw in are elements that I deal with everyday.

Lots of mental effort ofcourse but its all good cuz you get to see cons and pros real quick.

Coffee // Phones // People

These are the elements that I went back and forth on, with no clear answer until I came up with solutions for each and every issue.

Ofcourse nerdy readers will realize that all these three elements share one particular feature. Social Network. Thats what these three revolve around.

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19
August, 2010
phenomenon 2:11 AM

Phenomenon: Be like that Jew

Its been 2 good years since I have slowly installed ideas in my head that speak of two major principles:

- None judgement.

- Total acceptance.

These two concepts are built with “respect” being the cloud that holds them together.

*Silence*

I learned recently that there is a group of people out there EATING/DRINKING in broad daylight, infront of everyone, some even tweet about it. Now, in Ramadan.

In Kuwaiti pop culture, we call these peeps “كلاب رمضان”

“Whats uglier than a sin is owning it, bragging about it infront of everybody” I have never fully understood the concept behind the prophet Mohammed message till now.

Everybody is asking for the society’s acceptance when really society did accept you but you chose to live in a jungle. You refuse to be human. You want to be a four legged creature, you insist to be a creature that yearns for bananas and peanuts. You claim you are free spirited and uncaged, yes, we get that, but when you come out from the jungle, live in nice houses, just like dogs and cats, there are things you should do/things you avoid doing to reach the master’s approval for you to stay in the house.

You are not in a jungle anymore.

You know that, you understand that, you see a poor man standing under the sun, underpaid, over worked, exhausted, all he could ask for is a sip of water. You just came out of your house, pampered as ever, at ease, thinking bout the next best thing to do, THEN, you see him and what do you do ? slowly drink water, with your eyes fixed on that poor soul, knowing that he is watching you.

Suppose you inhibit a filthy, ungrateful heart. Dont you have a place for mercy or compassion ?

Why ? – Knowing that you are intellectually capable of shutting yourselves up and maybe, just maybe act like humans sometimes ?

You may not know this, but the devil, lucifer himself, was an abducted prisoner of war before humans ruled this temporary earth. He was a good and faithful slave to GOD, till the famous story came across. Even lucifer was, the personality blamed for everything dark, evil and gloomy, was, at least good, once upon a time.

A jew was granted GOD’s forgiveness and mercy, was even promised to be in heaven, for scolding his child verbally when he was eating/drinking in broad daylight infront of muslims. This happened when the light on earth, Mohammed, was alive.

Why cant you be like that Jew ? – Why do you CHOOSE to be disregarded, down graded here on earth // cursed in your grave with GOD knows what kind of temporary hell you’ll be in // finally dragged to hell for eternity ?

Why my dear ?

You dont believe in GOD ? Thats fine, I respect that.
You dont believe in the afterlife/judgement day ? Fine, I respect that.

What about now ? Why do you choose to dis-respect us ? We are Kuwaiti citizens just like you. We are your neighbours, friends and some of us are family, do you dislike us that bad ?

Why do you represent yourselves well when travel abroad ? You know all the rules, the ins and outs to each and everything, because you are smart. Not only that, but YOU WANT THEIR APPROVAL. However you choose not to respect your fellow Kuwaiti brothers and sisters, even strangers, no one actually. That, my dear, is a choice, not a smart one.

I can go on and on.

I know exactly what is going on in your lovely brain cells.

I love this story:

“My christian friend was fasting, he was only having vegetables and juices, no meat or chicken, so I helped him cook a nice menu for him and his whole family. When Ramdan came upon us, he was so kind and prepared a big portion of soup for me to use for up till 3 days, it was that big, it tasted wonderful. Problem is I had it for breakfast and lunch.

When he knew I consumed the whole bowl in one day, he asked if I didnt like it or just threw it out, I said NO and explained that I CHOSE not to fast, I understand why im supposed to fast, I believe in GOD but I just dont want to fast, its not doable.

He was upset and confused, left the house”

Baby what were you thinking ? Ofcourse, he’ll leave, to him you are a hypocrite. If this is how you treat your creator, how will you treat the created ?

Conclusion

We all have the need to feel special, to be looked at, taken care of, HOWEVER, grabbing people’s attention to you by downgrading their religion, spiritual beliefs and culture is not at all admirable.

There is nothing wrong with being you, who and whatever you think you are as long as you respect everybody else. Look up the definition of Freedom if you like.

I am a person who looks for love, joy and beauty in everything. I failed this time.

This time I am glad I failed, I want nothing to do with this. GOD, his angels and everybody who’s reading this are my witness.

Now, as for those who know about this phenomenon with their mouths shut, know that your are a dysfunctional extra/silenced devil. You have witnessed this mess and said/acted/showed no-concerns what so ever. You are responsible now and later on infront of his holly grace.

Lord forgive us, I beg you to wake the unawakened
Forgive them, for they know not what they do

*Clarification*

This post is intended for Kuwaiti citizens who live inside the borders of KUWAIT and view themselves as rebels.
This is not in anyway shape or form intended for those who follow any organized religion or any other way of life chosen. All religions and spiritual paths are respected on this platform.
This is also not intended for those who eat or drink in broad daylight, inside KUWAIT, because they need to or have to.
This post is not intended for foreigners either.

I know, in my own way, that I made it clear up there in the message’s body, however some of you, somehow, fail to get the full picture. That is why, I think, a clarification is due.

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06
July, 2010
phenomenon 4:06 AM

Phenomenon: Profanity

I love conversations. I love long long discussions, cool, easy breathable debates that sometimes enlightens both sides, sometimes it leads to no where.

Not all conversations make sense at the moment, many make sense after a long period. With me, some conversations made sense years after its occurrence.

I love to have a wrong/false idea about something/someone then get corrected by those who know what they’r talking about. THAT I love.

Im blessed to be a student of literature. Read many pieces from here and there. Studied the manners of arabic poetry/literature, in which they taught us how arab women were known to send very important letters to kings and queens with a line or two only. Full of respect and wisdom.

As a young kid, I never understood the value of this course till I met who I met recently. There were no one-liners, in a way, shape or form, there were mountains of words mixed with curses/profanities, hand gestures, body language and eye-laser-indications that brought me down.

I will discuss with you a sample of Kuwaiti men and women I met abroad recently who are completely new to my database. Strangers, new comers that blazed lots of personal issues out of no where and definitely for no reason.

Lemme just get to the root of what I want.

Before I do, please lets highlight the NO JUDGEMENT flag, yes ?

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