I thought, since Im sick, why dont I make space for everybody else to vent out what they have in mind.
Ignore the world and its endless stories, try not to involve you’re self with irrelevant events.
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Alright, first of all, thank you I’m gonna selfishly assume that this month’s ventpost is dedicated for me
Anyways this is probably silly and won’t find an easy answer but within myself.
Few days ago I was just thinking of what I achieved and what people know me by.
I’m 20 now and I feel lost and I don’t know what I want to do or want to be (And that sucks so much) I wanted to talk to you personally about this w ashof rayek bhal mawthoo3.
Eli 3enda ray bhal mawthoo3 yrid 3alay, yfeedni ebshaghla aw shaghletain.
So, yeah… :c
It is for you. and everybody else too.
I’ll be more than happy to talk to you about it and you know it
I forget to mention it was 1:30am at that time!
My sweet vampire ;*
Alsubah :
i feel exactly the same way … There a few things you can do
1- paper
2- pen
3 – write down where u see yr self a few years later
4 – what u wish to accomplish
5- set yr short term goals
6- set yr long term goals
and finally just remeber that u have to have a life plan set (sorta) and remeber that ALLAH will be yr one and only guide
p.s. Hope this helps :$
Sometimes, you should let inspiration and unknown forces lead you. Trust.
Kalam 7elo! I should do that again bas asawiha ebjaw 9akha!
anyways I didnt know what you meant by “Just remember that you have a life plan set”
But this helps alot! Thanks
Fakeness
Kuwaiti culture !? We have to change
I need to tell u that no people is leaving in the way they leave
Always negative , what els doing then let me do the same , 7asaD , and no clean hearts in Kuwait any more
What do you think we should do about it ?
Are you sure what kind of people you allow in your social circle ?
Expectations ..
.. If you Have No Expectations, There is No Way Your Gonna Be Disappointed.
I Learn That Never Think or Hope for a certain “reaction” done or said by anyone around you.
DO/Say whatever your heart desire just becuase it will make you feel good. Never wait for a certain feedback. cuz If you don’t get it. it will break you.
EXCELLENT
I am in dire need to vent! Nothing really is going the way I want it to. People around really do not understand market requriement vs current product. Why can’t everyone understand that if you do not address the market need, someone else will!
Why can’t managment assist with the problem instead of compounding the problem!
Did you try to talk to them ?
I’m American and I have lived in Kuwait for over five years now. I became a Muslim over a year ago, and I’m curious about the minds of born Muslims, especially here in Kuwait. I’m extremely passionate about Islam and I try to implement the teachings in every aspect of my life to the fullest. It’s a blessing Allah has given me and I would not trade for anything! I’m not trying to offend or act like I’m better than anyone, because Allah knows I don’t think like that. I’m curious as to why the actions of many people (not everyone) male or female give off this image as if they have forgotten the real purpose of life or the teachings of Islam. I’m not saying the people don’t know Allah or Prophet Mohammed (pbuh), but it seems like many are concerned with worldly pleasures or gains. I’m not trying to offend anyone once again, just curious about this? Any thoughts…..
Hey there Yousef,
May the lord almighty bless you, I sense your sincere apologetic nature.
Now just to share my 2 cents with you, I believe that some people are definitely drowned in worldly pleasures, then again, according to the Prophet, we live in the age of various/new/raw FITAN.
The idea is not to be upset or worried, the idea is to inspire people to change/improve and uplift themselves.
Be the change you want to see in the world. Maybe if you could throw a bit of charisma into it, the rest will follow.
One more thing: In your prayers, ASK the most merciful to choose you as one of his obedient servants. If he does, you’re life will reach new highER grounds.
i second khaled. I want to vent about that. Fakeness/hypocrisy lil asaf also exists within family circles. Its sad and sick and completely pathetic. And when you stand up to these forces and dont bend over to those people its puts you in a socially awkward situation or even worse, people will persuade you that it is part of the kuwaiti culture to ‘itjamil’ oo ‘it7ish’ oo all that crap. Personally i believe its a load of bull. Im sorry i dont really care if im not popular amongst eeveryone in kuwaiti social circles or family circles but i do care that im popular amongst those that are true to themselves and count. It is not part of kuwaiti culture to be selfish, rude, racist and utterly fake…thats just what people have done to it today. Kuwaitis were known for their kindness and love. thank you
You have a beautiful mind. Maybe if you could sway your attitude to your family circle, avoid being an outsider, part of the circle, maybe you’ll be a reason for them to be “enlightened”
Never underestimate what one person is capable of.
omg, i am dealing with the exact same thing! and i suck at mojamala, oo ee wala kuwaitis were known for their kindness sij madri sh9ar
my dear i have tried. So many times. Yet they hate and hate and hate and it is such a negative place to be. I never cut them out cuz blood is blood regardless. But it is so sad to see the way things are going. Well sometimes its better to be an outsider cuz being a part of them means being involved in discrimnation and other petty issues i dont like to delve in.
I know exactly what you’re going through because I’m going through the same.
I say my opinion with an open heart and they tend to think that I’m trying to prove them wrong;s
I almost got in trouble for suggesting something so now I just shut my mouth when it comes to opinions.
If your curious about the salfa that almost got me in trouble it was when one girl, Sara, was gossiping about her ex-husband to a bunch of us trying to convince us that he was a bad person. I stopped her when she went deep. I said that I’m not supposed to hear this. Only your mom or someone very close should know about this. I said that NICELY. Right after I said that, someone was about to get in to defend her (attack me with evil words) but before that happened Sara’s father came in and asked about something that’s irrelevant (he heard what I said to his daughter and knows I’m right). Then I went home. The next time I went, someone told me that there’s a rumor about me being jealous from Sara because Sara was married and I’m not. PALEEEEZ I laughed so hard when I heard that. I don’t even wana go there…
It wasn’t the 1st time she does this so I had to speak up because the info she was saying was very personal. I felt sympathetic towards her in the beginning, but when I thought about it and imagined myself in her shoes, I wouldn’t say a word. Even if he was the worst person in the planet. He WAS my husband. The only people that I’d open up about him is my mom and sister. If anyone asks, I’d reply “ne9eb”.
I don’t want to create problems in the family, so it’s best to remain silent. I only say my opinion to my friends and my inner family (parents, sis, and bros)
There are a lot of things that we want to change in our society. Just because you can’t change in your family doesn’t mean you can’t change the society. Don’t waste your time talking about others, use the time for something that benefits you and your society.
In this case I did try to prove her wrong ;p but there were other incidents where I wasn’t, especially when I say my (positive) opinion about something
Sometimes, you may sit in silence and show no response/interest. Be there as a living breathing kind person.
You may change the topic, not obviously though. The moment they feel it, they’ll go angry ;P
If you cease throwing wood on fire, it wont burn no more.
I still believe in the goodness of people even under the fake exterior. I’ve been through situations in my life where I got help from people I didn’t expected it from them. Remember the invasion…how we all united, supporting one another against the enemy? Generosity, Honor and Loyalty is there rooted deep within us,we just have to nurture it more among ourselves, our family and friend and our children. I’m an idealist…
#Preach !
Abyyyyyy aftaaaaaak men koliyaaaaaat el6eb ;((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((
Haanat ;D
Abdulla
Yes , and I’m changing it all the time , but the nature of the culture is more stronger than people , Kuwait become a place with easy going actions , when some one have an issue before , it would be effctive even in his attetude , ( fe mesta7a ) now people ( qasleen wayhom eb b… ) no one care if he did something efashel aw bad to other , before Tgom el qyama for some thing 3ade as ( u called some one and he did not answer and u saw him in a market ) he would be shy , oo yt3athar o e7raj , now the easy answer is ( kel wa7ed enam bel Janb ele ery7a ) they think it’s the 2011 way , I’m not picky but this is an example , for me mako standards 7ag el qala6 wel 9a7 , 9aar el mawtho3 every one he need to say this is the way I leave , Bas our father and mothers will not except it ( wain ayam gabel ) ?! U got me ?!
“but the nature of the culture is more stronger than people” No its not. If you say it is, your brain will believe it.
and I do get you. Still, check out the kind of people you allow in your circle. There are always signs that tell you what to expect.
You choose.
الصراحه أنا أعاني بشكل يومي من قلله ادب الناس و المجتمع.
الشرطة يتحرشون و اذا رحت السوق حريم و رياييل يخزون ويعلقون اشكره بالويه ولا جنه اسماهم و اشوف!
و الرياييل طبعا امبدعين ولا جنه عندهم خوات! يقطون حجي ما يثمنونه و يتحرشون و يحشووووون اكثر من الحريم!
ليش!!!! وين راح العيب؟ و المستحى؟ و الحيا؟ احس ان عندنا ازمه أخلاق مستعصيه! شي عجيب اللي قاعد يصير.
بالشارع الشرطي يوقفني و يقولي أنا ما بغيتج بغيت اللي بالمرسيدس!
يتحرشون بدون خوف… ادش الجمعيه صبيان قد عيالي يقطون علي كلام وصخ!!!
ليش؟؟؟ لا أنا مفصخه ولا البس فاضح ولا حتى اتمكيج!!!
والله ان حتى اذا طلعت مع ريلي و رحنا السوق الحريم يتحرشون فيه والرياييل يخزون!!!
صرنا ما نطلع… من سفرة لي سفرة بس نستانس كعائله بدون تحرش الناس و
This may sound as an unhelpful tip but ignore them.
They obviously see something in you they want || or are jealous || or seek your success.
I feel your pain and understand your frustration. I thank you for sharing it as it is with all of us!
My IGCSE exams are driving me crazy,they last for a month or so and the results are not until end of august, my mum is pressuring me and so is my dad since they want me to attend KU and KU has very high standards as everyone knws, i can barely handle this nymore
Keep your head down, focus on your work. The future awaits you.
Gonna vent about something silly, so if you don’t want to waste your time skip this comment please
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Gonna make a long story short. I’m a gentleman that has respect, integrity and a very promising vision ahead of me. It all was going great until fate, or let’s call it destiny, made me stumble upon two girls. Let’s call them X and Y, their best friends btw. I was just being kind and giving and making them laugh, you know just doing my role in the social scene. That’s how it all started…keep in mind that I always sat down and chatted with both X and Y everytime, and never leaving one alone.
A cloud started forming in my head, I’ve never felt this way before, but as I got to know X more I fell in love…eventually we got to talk over the phone and the love just kept on growing…untill all I see is her. She told me something that stabbed me in the heart “Y loves you from the start, even before she met you”. From this point I was stunned. I did not know what to think or say I just ignored the fact like it was never said. I started noticing it later…kept on ignoring.
X slowly started not talking. I asked her what’s wrong and as usual the lie that everyone hates was said “I’m fine
”.
From that day on I backed off, not even letting them see me. They just know I exist by my tweets and me their tweets. Note that X can contact me by every social mean anytime she wants.
I am not alright, my judgements, my actions, my thinking is all a blur. Spacing out has become a normal thing, for hours thinking of what could be the reason and how could I stop Y from loving me and X getting to talk again. “Y” bint 7alaal o mo7tarama and being a gentleman I say this with every fiber of my being “maaby ana6ir bint 7alaal!!! 3al fa’9e!”
Those close to me tell me to forget, an impossible feat since I am not heartless, just a mere human.
That’s it and if you got this far, then thanks for reading but please do drop a suggestion
You’ll grow up .. remember it .. talk abt it and smile … its just one of those complicated romantic adventures you get in life you seem young
Confrontation heals all.
Um abood
9aa7 lsanech and bravo for this , really I need to say the same
Human. . I bet you’re not in your 30s. You sound very young. And not sure of what u want and what you need. Big difference by the way.
I suggest you take a breather… Love dies after a while even if u refuse to believe so..
I’VE BEEN CRUSHED SO MANNY TIMES DURING THOSE PAST 4 YEARS HOWEVER IM HANDLING IT CALMLY ,, MY FRIENDS ARE SAYING YOU ARE NOT NORMAL ,, MY ANSWER IM STRONG I DONT LOVE DRAMA I LUV TO SMILE
,, THEY SAY IF YOU STAY ON THIS CALM REACTION EVERY TIME YOU GET HURT YOU’LL TURN INTO A PSYCHOPATH .. (( Question ,, How do i know if i am becoming one ? ))
Are you obsessing about that person till now ? Yes ? then you’re obsessed. If no, you just feel guilty for something you did.
lol the wierd thing is that i dont even think about any thing that passed .. thats why they say im not normal !!! and i dont even talk about it sometimes i forget a9lan that phase its like a blank phase in my life … they r pissed that i dont complain …. ya raby im a positive person does that mean im going crazy because im positive … kuwaiti mentality sucks … and they really made me believe there is something with me, because i handle stuff calmly . marat a7er eberody .
bil 3ax thats great, so lets cancel el psychopath mess min the map, yes ?
i think i am slipping into depression.
If you think it, then you’re far away from it. U might be upset now, but no, not depressed.
Ask yourself, do I want this (insert your situation here) ? Is it working ? || not ? NEXT !
Thanks for the feedback Um Abood and Dalal, ill keep you two guessing my age
It won’t be easy, but I guess life does go on.
I’m getting a divorce this week. I’m sad because I know I’m smart and pretty and I had many suitors before I agreed to marry this person.
As it turned out, he is both gay and an alcoholic. I’m not a homophobe but why would anyone do this? :”/ I know our society doesn’t accept gays but it’s also as harsh on divorcees. I feel like he took something away from me that no one will ever be able to restore.
I don’t even know how to talk about what I’m going through.
Anon,
I stand next to you and condemn his action of even asking your hand in marriage. Its not fair to you or any woman in the world. I also understand how you are not a homophobe and so am I, still what he did is shameful, his interest is elsewhere.
For you to be brave enough to share this means you are willing to start over. You have every right to do so.
I bet you’re beauty overshadows your beautiful brain, so no worries about suitors, they’ll come running.
Please love yourself more than you ever did, then give it to someone who’s worth it and is man enough to handle you.
Thank you for your kind words Abdullah, you’ve really brought tears to my eyes. God keep you happy and safe always. I can keep my head up knowing that there are people like you somewhere.
it is harsh so harsh on divorcees however be strong grl and try to forget .. that is life say el7emdella it ended up like this there are grlz much worse than you , at least you are going to be free o em3azezza emkarema at your parents ,, as for him it’s hard for gays in Kuwait that sometimes society strain them on doing stuff in order to fix their realism into an idealism scene and they expect him to act on it !! what he did was wrong i didnt say that for justification .. bas these things happen .
Thank you dalal, I appreciate it. El7amdellah, I know some girls have it worse than I do.
OMG HES AN ASSHOLE! im curious what did he reply to you when you asked him why he got married if he was gay!?
Thanks for the post Abdulla…
All i wanna say is that why are people now always talking i dont mean talking about others behind their back (ye7eshooon), NO, im talking about it became so easy to tell someone a secret that isn’t his… I mean for example why do women talk about their husbands (i mean the problems and issues) with their friends and family members, dont get me wrong their are great women im not saying ALL women, only SOME… im not married but i thought that any problem between husband and wife should stay between them… and why do mothers these days raise their daughters to listen to them over their husbands thats just wrong… An ex. my friend got devorced and when i asked why he said that his wife’s mother get into everything and his wife just listen to her no questions asked, and the thing that really blew me away is that when i asked ok how is ur wife as a women he said only good things, bes ga3ed yimda7ha…
This question is for the men, why do they think that staying up all night is a manly thing especially married men… ex. i know someone who just got married hasn’t even been a year and he always stays up at night and leaves the wife home alone thats just wrong, especially at the beginning of the marriage, to be honest its always wrong, ok maybe once a week for the men they sometimes need it…
thoughts i liked to share, im not saying that im perfect im not, and im not generalising on all men and women only some, but these things i see alot so i liked to share…
We have three cases here:
- Love of possession.
- Man power.
- Stupidity.
All need three chapters of explanation.
but arnt we suppose to live in the now, think of right this moment, not of the future, all of you should focus more in the now then tomorrow, stop wasting now time on tomorrows, abdulla understands me well..
#Preach x 10
nice post……
beautiful and thought provoking replies , though i thought to “vent” about something but this positivity makes my problems look small
my parents are getting a divorce this week. i dont know why this is happeneing and now because of this stupid situation i dont speak to anyone any more im pushing everyone away.
suggestions please .
my parents are getting a divroce this week. im confused and always alone with is not like me im pushing everyone away, im starting to face reality that everything will change no more “happy family memories”.
any suggestions ?
My oarents are getting a divorce ive been through A LOT because of them but now that its for real, i dont know i feel bad. im pushing everyone away which is totally not like me im always alone and now my two best friends are ice cream and my laptop. its sinking in my head now that its really over i wont be able to have anymore fun family moments or make any memories with them.
any sugestions ?
This isnt exactly venting but i need the help in making a decision. Im getting a car this month and i want to know what is the nicest car for a girl in her early 20s? im thinking something sporty in the 30 thousand range, although it doesn’t necessarily have to be sporty and i want opinions
I have a great suggestion for you….How about a 7an6oor? it costs less + its sporty.