Try This: Mind Your Business
One can not avoid the latest messages that have been/still are spread everywhere about marriage news about specific families using BBM, SMS and E-mails. I’v already discussed this mess earlier.
I received these messages on heavy rotation day one.
Day two, I received the same with lots and lots of judgement attached under the original messages which I wont share simply because it belongs to my “class” posts.
On the same day, I asked why are you doing this ? The inevitable answer was “You think with your heart and not your brain, you’ll never understand”
So if im not on the same page with you, how you think, what you want, im considered un-awakened and in the realm of unconsciousness ?
Judge me, my poor brian all you want, but lemme tell you what I saw:
- Most negative comments came from men & women who are single, insecure, love to hate, self obssesed. *for no reason* If I may add.
- Many, not all, were uneducated and are, somehow, taught, what to think. A college degree does not mean your educated, get it ?
- Many made me burst thoughts like “ And who are you again ?” if you know what im saying.
My advice is to mind your business, wish everyone well and know that fate is everything.
Its very simple. What you give out to the universe will come back to you.
No wonder you’r miserable as hell.
Oh and Karma is a what ? Yup, thats right.
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i got that msg i was shocked lool ashkara wa7da mayta 7arraaa , i dont know but i imagined smoke coming out of her ears when she wrote this
I felt ina they started throwing things all over the place
MAD MAD women 
i saw that scene in real wallah lol from a friend of mine loooool , which i discovered calming her down well make her more crazy that am cool with it ,, bas it was funny
Agreed, they freak out when you want to calm them down, ignore the issue, they ignore it too and go back to normal
Respect my brozer!!
Right back at you ;D
ok ok ok lets open this subject … if guys can do it …. Why cant grlz do it too
hat do you mean getting married and stuff ? Girls did it already
not all he he he he it still harder than boys
I never said all, lakin many did, they slapped society in the face with a MUGLA !
9a7 elsanik walla…ams kaan mo 6bee3e…w3kaya bdal ma ybarkon luhum o yfr7um luhum klohum bghorhum
kl wa7d 7r y5tar shareek 7ayata ilnas laish tetda5al eb shay ma y5e9ha o et6anz 3alaihum jidam 5alg Allah
ya nas tara kelna wa7id o mezan eltfare8 baina elta8wa mo ilfloos o esim3a o iljmal
I could not agree more, more power to you !
Sry wayid spelling mistakes
w3kaya=w3laya
yfr7um=yrf7oon
bghorhum=bgshorhum
la la basee6a il bara7a bara7tich ;D
sry wayid misspelled words:
-w3kaya=w3laya
-yfr7um=yfr7oon
-bghorhum=bgshorhum
no problem
I didn’t get any msgs since I careless for them and don’t pay much attention…but I’m sorry to say that some ppl live in this tiny dark box, and can’t get out of it because of their insecurities and hate or just jahal minhom :s It is a real shame.
Sometimes I do want to ignore, yet its always an IN YOUR FACE attitude. That, you cant ignore.
Good one u go give it to all the nasties!! but y are ppl doing all this..jobless or what!!each one write wht they feel…we all write different but y soo much negetivity ..its just sad!!
I think ppl get shocked because they have been raised that way, or mt3awdeen 3ala shay mu3ayan.. I don’t really know.
Like I heard about an engagment the other day, I was more than shocked because of something.. I know deep down that their marriage wont work bs 9ar feeni allah iwafeghum while other ppl were talking about it and jumping to conclusions..
So I guess it is from the way we have been raised…
Bs if I read something from the broadcasts ou ma 3jabni I would only discuss it with my sister/mom/cousin.. Why talk about them infront of everyone and send msgs? That I don’t get..
I agree with what you said in the begining but that works for a certain age, then you grow, develop and have your own conscious.
I could not agree more on the last phrase, thats what im trying to push in this whole post.
“but that works for a certain age” .. amen to that!
Still, did you not know that you had great chances of not growing out of that ‘certain age’ AT ALL when you’ve lived in Kuwait for jam3a and got stuck in Kuwait thereafter?
No offense; but the silly gossipping and messaging, which is supposed to be for teenagers only – is being practiced by 25 year olds and that is the norm here.
You find that mentality el gwa6e bel jam3a; you find that mentality in the recruited new employees. Hell, you find that mentality in the good old employees who have falafel for breakfast at ta3lem el3ale! See my point? People here get stuck at their teenaged years for life…
Was I supposed to post this under that VENT post? ;p whoops looool
HAHA! your supposed to post this wherever you like. And I do agree its childish and stupid, BUT its IN.
Its cool to be rude and state your opinion. They call it bravery. I call it a** kissing. Simply because if I diss the team your against, that makes us friends. NOT !
You should have Justin Timberlake’s song “What Goes Around/Comes Back Around” accompany this post
preach it !
What’s going on?
*is a bit clueless* =P
I agree with the very end though; you said it brotha!
And we preach
I don’t even wana know shisalfa! Stick with an iphone mai7oshik 6shar w halaga………………………………at least not as much if any!
Agreed !
biatch
I agree, it’s ironic how most of the engagement messages now a days tell us about the family’s history or nationality
for instance, almost two weeks ago I have received a message that says the nationality of the girl’s mom instead of her family’s name. And just two days ago, the nationality of a guy that’s engaged to a kuwaiti woman and i quote “akher 3omerna gimna nakheth zalamat” and they were both broadcasts might i add
Thats exactly what im saying ? Plus, people who leave these comments are charity cases, to begin with
Laish alzalama moo bashar ya3neee. that;’s kind of racist….but then again we have lots of racists in this country unfortunately in denial
They are there and they are not in denial. Thats worse.
Kafu ya Boom Boom pow ;p(apparently thats a form of what they call u)
i7na we have :
1)things way to easy which is a blessing and a curse
2)to much free time
3) no real hobbies
4)mitdal3een.
so maybe parents will pay attention to how my generation is turning out a and they tecah their kids differently.. let chandra do the House Work only. then we also wouldn’t hav
banat with daddy issues either.
You bring the heat right to the point of no return, yet why is it ok to misuse these blessings ?
BTW miss your blog
wala i don’t know, all we can do is thank god and hope we can start the change..
and thank you so much u made my day :$ im thinking of moving to wordpress fa inshallah we’ll get back soon thx abdullah!!!
Ofcourse ! let me know if you need anything, i’ll be more than happy to help ;D
That is Very True.. College degrees do not asses ur education its just one aspet of a learning process it doesnt necessarily mean You are educated.. It really shocked me to know people with degrees had really stone age mindsets.
and People with insecurities and hate.. u can just feel sorry for them because they are blinded
I could not ask for a better brain than yours, Thanks !
Is that my brain or someone elses?:P
Someone else’s
THANK YOU!!! I was frustrated and irritated when I got one of those texts, I couldn’t believe there are people THAT judgmental!
Walla 3aib they degrade other people like that! mo 3aib, ela pure 7araam!!!!!
Exactly. What you felt is so right, never doubt how you go about things.
“Imagine all the people living life in peace..you may say I’m a dreamer, but I’m not the only one, I hope someday THEY will join us, and the World will be as one”
Its very simple. What you give out to the universe will come back to you
i agree with it w alnaas ma y3gbha shay so do wht you see rithe & wht U like
thanx alot to U all
You’re all talking about an ‘inner racism’ where a Kuwaiti family feels they are ‘better bred’ than another Kuwaiti family…what about when they feel they are better than a whole race? I’m American, married to a Kuwaiti and the racism against us in unbelievable. The very same people who think that bbms like this are wrong are the same people that stare, glare and say nasty comments about my husband and his foreign wife while we walk through the mall or practically fall off the chair shooting daggers from their eyes. I love Kuwait, but frankly I have NEVER seen racism like this before in my entire life. They are racist against all non-Kuwaitis and Kuwaitis!!! When and how can it change?
Snow.. You are right… there are kuwaiti families who feeel they are better bred than other families.. evidence.. is that they dont let their daughters or sons marry to a certain family.. racism between sunni and shiite.. racism between one shiite family to another and even one sunni family to another.. and racism between nationalities.. its not just that.. racism also between jobs..! its unbelievable. if they find out u dont have a business or money.. they dont even kknow u exist.. and if ur parents are not WELL KNOWN in society.. u are nothing.. It hurts …its sad.. everytime i hear such a situation happenin.. it breaks my heart. i ask myself will they ever change..? despite that I swear to God kuwaities are the nicest Kindest people u would know.. in times of crisis in times of Joy.. They Stick together Always.. but times are changing i just hope for the better an dnot for the worse