A Message From The Boys
Men in my life have bombarded me with a strange but true statement thats been hovering on my brain cells from Husbands, Fiances, BF’s, Crush holders, and yes, a CEO.
Its a message from them to you ladies, wives, youngins, lady loves and the nasties, you see, I tried to sum up what they have in mind in a line or two and here’s how it goes:
“We, sometimes, dont understand how you feel and we LOVE you, we just want YOU to SAY what YOU have in mind instead of making us ASSUME what YOU want and END UP with the WRONG conclusions”
Alright, I guess I got it right, I hope so.
Ok, ladies, take a breather, no need to throw your fine Manolo’s on the computer screen, you can basically, ease down and not take the above statement personally. Specially with all those men watching, umm hmm ? *snap*
On the other hand, if you think you did everything by the book and you made yourself/message/intentions clear and he still acts stupid, you know I got your back and here’s what you do to’em
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we dont say wht we feel coz we feel too much all the time;p insander rooooskom ;p
insander ? yedeeda hathee ? ;D
More like feeling your way around your man’s wallet.
Preach
Done everything by the book..hints..intentions…said it plainly to his face…ooo mako fayda! the only thing left is the sledgehammer
@ Dalal: once this girl’s guy friend came up to me and said she was dropping me hints like smiling in my face, etc.
I don’t recall ever seeing her before in my life.
So what seems obvious to you probably isn’t.
Mathalan you sending him a message ending with ‘ ;p or
‘ isn’t a sure-fire way of letting him know you like him.
Ok Fuzzbear…
Last week…I’m bored to tears! I go to hubby and tell him I’m bored. He smiles and continues watch TV (Discover Chennel How is it Made!!!) Then I come back to him and tell him I’m craving Chocolate Bar (And I’m not hungry I just want to go out!) he looks at me and smiles… I take another turn around the house and I stop in front of him my hands on my hips… looking every inch the shrew that I hate to be, but I’m pushed to show my fangs and nails, and I tell him “For the Love of GoD! I’m Bored to death! I’m sick of this routine! Let us go OUT!” How plain could I be? and still he smiles and continues to watch his show!!! How dense is that? and all of this got nothing to do with Love or emotions or looks or whatever… and believe me etha ba6at eljerba I will never stop to list the density of the male species!
if we are that simple then u guys no longer have to Struggle and where is the fun in that
Rania I totally agree…
Oh you’re married?
I’m sorry to say he’s lost interest with you then.
We’re not dense, he’s giving you plain signs and you’re the one not getting them.
Fuzzybear…sweetie you’re sooo funny! Honest I’m laughing!
i agree with um-mit3ib..
u’d be bored to death after we tell u exactly shino ib balna.. seriously it is too complicated 4 u men…
I agree with um-mit3ib, I think if we say what we feel, we would cause you trouble;p!
And even though glna shnu fe balna, a7es you would go like WTH?!
@ Dalal: denial is the first phase.
Soon you will seek solace with your girl-friends maxing your dad’s credit card at sal7iya or wherever the new chic place is.
I’m not trying to be an a-hole but I just don’t like to sugarcoat life for that would be wrong.
@goofy: forgive me if I don’t take your accusation of a man’s mental capacity too seriously, your name and all…
The same can’t be said of me because I didn’t make any grand accusations.
@NE: yes we most likely would because 90% of the time, both the guy and the girl are having fun. But for the most minute and retarded reasons, the girl would like to call it quits.
Ex: mathalan a guy and a girl are having the time of their lives and have been together for a year. Everything that’s happening to them is something out of a movie, it just seems so surreal but yet it’s happening. The guy goes to buy the girl a drink, on his way over he spills some of it over the girl’s shoes, she goes ape-shit ballistic crazy and storms off. Two days later the guy gets a message saying it’s over.
Girls here have this unrealistic vision of what a man is supposed to be.
90% of the blogs here deal with love stories and the BS expectations women here have of guys.
He’s supposed to live the Kuwaiti lifestyle, look like a tanned george clooney, goes to the chalet with his friends, plays football, has a goatee, tall, shaved head, family guy, fancy car, good job, and most importantly a good family name and be a bigger romantic than shakespeare.
Not only are people unoriginal, copying one another and international trends but even their expectations of ‘love’ are identical.
And people wonder why guys resort to chasing girls, they know they can’t meet their expectations and resort to renting expensive cars and wearing fake rolex watches just to initiate a conversation.
It’s the Discovery Channel’s segment on how male animals attract females with bright plumage, puffing their chests up, etc. human style. Only I’d say the animals have more dignity.
wow!!
hahaha FUZZYBEAR you got it all right !
il7imdila im happily married because after experimenting with my hubby i came up with a solution that all women should consider.
Live for yourself , not for him not for anyone else!
latgololi noo i love him soo much and hal kalam , we all love them but when you’re bored matro7een tashkeen 7alich 3inda , gomay sawelich shay yinfi3ich , nathfay il bait ratbay dar raylich , whatever ilmuhim lat7enon .
o stop saying innta matifhamnii winta matadre 3ani , shlon ib yifhimich etha magilteela shino tabeen ?
i dont see men saying that to women 9a7 ?
but at the end its fun sometimes if you bothered him a little
if we say what we feel then btgolon “7anna” shnsawi? in gelna 9rna “7annaaneeen” oo in incha3amna gltaw “shlon tabona n3arif what ur thinking we dont read ur minds” ma 3arafnalikom?:s
wow, i quite like this post, well not il post per se as much as the comments hehe
I hope everyone sees nothing but the good intentions behind this post.
I also hope everyone means well.
1. I wish a man can just show some careness and stop being selfish and egoistic.
2. I hate this black mama u’ve posted very vulgar..vulgaireeee in french..
well i dont really get it..when females come straight to the point its like they are emotionless or PMSing or a plain B&*%#h!! if not they are fussy and they dont know wht they want…its same with men ..they dont really know wht they want sometimes.. so i conclude that no body knows wht excatly they want…hehe!!
it all depends on who ur with and how well they understand u!! i know plenty of them in both men and women who dont really talk their heart out and then end up in a bad mood!! so Mr.Dino is both ways
if true love exists then they’ll both be able to read each other’s minds. that’s all i have to say!
its sometimes funny to be fuzzy, ya3ni by gods sake would u rather ur wife, sis, mom, gf etc. to be an open book and say whatever’s on her mind or let me say EVERYTHING bel tafseeel elmumil everytime u talk to each other ? wela ena bs ta36eek jawab mukhtasar ou u have to get her right ? ya3ni sij a7is malaqa etha wallah kel ma sar feenii shay ou the opposite sex asked me what’s wrong ou i tell him everything in details its kinda boring ;s ! he’ll get bored ba3ad, wetha he didn’t get me elsara7a 3an nafsi i just close the subject cuz ma7b atnaqash wayed fa 6aaf 3adii.
so a7san shay ya 7areem enkum taskitooon oo la tgolooon shay wala tet7al6imoun etha ma fhimoukum ou ma 3alaih elmsam7 kareem